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In sports and in life, CONNECTION is as important as everything else put together.

When we believe that control is the only way to stay safe or escape a trap, it's easy to fall into the mindset that we need to achieve perfect alignment, with each element working together seamlessly. However, this perspective restricts everyone involved to merely the sum of their individual contributions.

We provide an immersive experience of being part of something that is greater than the sum of the parts. To embody a **Gestalt of connection**.

We don’t access a Gestalt by following instructions. We achieve this level of connection by observing and copying those in the Gestalt we wish to join, and processing the entirety of the experience so that we embody the Gestalt. It is easier to access a Gestalt when someone is shaping it for us.

HOW TO SHAPE A GESTALT - think Steph Curry and Antoine Dupont

1. Clarity. Ensure that the next move is apparent to everyone

2. Patience. Wait to see how everyone reacts

3. A Sense of Calmness. If the chosen move can’t be executed, stay calm, and allow another move of clarity to unfold.

The ability to experience genuine connection is a crucial life skill for the 21st century

Over the years, I have had many conversations with people who want me to seamlessly align with their perfected plan.

jon thorne
7 hours ago
1 min read

When I resist, they feel controlled or disrespected.

I then tend to withdraw, because I don't want them to feel this way.

But we both lose out from this.

I have finally come up with a set of words that explain why I don't want to be part of something that is aligned to work seamlessly.

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As illustrated by the Scottish Men's Six Nations team at the weekend.

And how I offer something more than my individual contribution