Most of us know, CONNECTION is as important as everything else put together.
There are currently two very common ways to give yourself a comfort zone of connection.
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When you connect by playing a fixed part, in a fixed sum of the parts, the best everyone can get is the fixed sum of the fixed parts.
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When you connect with those whose thoughts are aligned with your own.
Although having something to look forward to makes a comfort zone of connection more bearable, it does not eliminate the stagnation of going around in a loop, doing the same thing over and over again.
You can escape the comfort zone of connection by adding a Gestalt.
This means loosening the bonds between interconnected parts, so that we can constantly change the connections between the parts to create something greater than the sum of the parts. When the comfort zone of connection is removed, an endless journey of continuous improvement unfolds.
Participating in a Gestalt involves watching what a teammate is about to do. Waiting to see how everyone reacts. Then, moving to provide an additional option, at the moment, their option is closing down. To them, it feels like they are running into the unknown, knowing people will appear with a previously unseen option at the moment it is needed.
When everyone is doing this, it creates a deep sense of connection that makes it possible to let go of any need for a fix part in a fixed sum of the parts. To let go of any need to align thinking. It breaks the stagnation.
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Older adults and adult beginners play Basketball (1)
Wed 04 Mar
|Loreto College, St Albans
We will show you how to see what a teammate is about to do. How to read how everyone reacts. How to move to provide an additional option at the moment a teammates is closing down. We play in small sized court to keep physical effort down and thinking time up :)
Time & Location
04 Mar 2026, 18:00 – 19:00
Loreto College, St Albans, Hatfield Rd, St Albans AL1 3RQ, UK
About the event
The app - It is easier to book on using our app which you can get by going to your phone's app store, search for wix.com app called Spaces. Download. And then enter this code QTKFDS
Don't let a lack of money stop you from coming. We have free tickets. Contact jon.thorne@LifeSkills21.club you don't need to explain - He will give you the code.
Tickets
Half Term ticket (5 sessions)
By buying a term ticket, the price per session drops to £7.50. This ticket is for 5 sessions, from 25th of Feb 25th of March inclusive.
£37.50
+£0.94 ticket service fee
Pay as you go ticket
This ticket for this session only.
£10.00
+£0.25 ticket service fee
Pay what you can
Our community events are not for profit. We will not let a lack of money stop anyone from attending. If you have money, please pay the full price so we can cover costs when many come for free
£+Ticket service fee
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