When it’s not working, we often limit our response to doubling down on fixing faulty parts, when we should also focus on strengthening the relationships between the parts so they connect better as a whole.
The whole is not the sum
of its parts. It's the
relationship
between them.
Insight emerges from the relationship of the whole, not from a reduction to the parts.
The ability to keep discovering new ways to make things work emerges from our relationship with the whole.
The generation that emerged from the world war developed relational skills to engineer standards while rebuilding after the war. Later generations used technology to extend those inherited skills, breaking the world down into smaller parts. Today we need relational skills to reconnect what has been deconstructed so it can function more effectively as a whole.
When you feel comfortably in control,
your attention is probably focused entirely
on fixing faulty parts.
Unless you also pay attention
to the relationships that connect the whole,
it will soon stop working.
Come play Basketball - league-level adults - Hemel (1)
Thu 13 Nov
|Hemel
For players who want to go beyond taking the first opportunity that presents itself. To current basketball skills, we add the ability to build nuanced, intricate, layered, flowing gameplay that can only be felt by the players and never wholly measured or coached by others


Time & Location
13 Nov 2025, 21:00 – 22:00
Hemel, Hill Common, Hemel Hempstead HP3 8JH, UK
About the event
It is at Longdean Sports Centre. https://goo.gl/maps/
The entrance is not via Longdean school. There is a separate entrance that you can only find by just putting the post code in - HP3 8JH
- off Hill Common. The easiest way is to use “What3Words” and they are ///guard.forks.fries
The app - It is easier to book on using our app which you can get by going to your phone's app store, search for wix.com app called Spaces. Download. And then enter this code QTKFDS
Don't let a lack of money stop you from coming. We have free tickets. Contact jon.thorne@LifeSkills21.club you don't need to explain - He will just give you the code.
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