In sports and in life, CONNECTION is as important as everything else put together.
When we believe that control is the only way to stay safe or escape a trap, it's easy to fall into the mindset that we need to achieve perfect alignment, with each element working together seamlessly. However, this perspective restricts everyone involved to merely the sum of their individual contributions.
We provide an immersive experience of being part of something that is greater than the sum of the parts. To embody a **Gestalt of connection**.
We don’t access a Gestalt by following instructions. We achieve this level of connection by observing and copying those in the Gestalt we wish to join, and processing the entirety of the experience so that we embody the Gestalt. It is easier to access a Gestalt when someone is shaping it for us.
HOW TO SHAPE A GESTALT - think Steph Curry and Antoine Dupont
1. Clarity. Ensure that the next move is apparent to everyone
2. Patience. Wait to see how everyone reacts
3. A Sense of Calmness. If the chosen move can’t be executed, stay calm, and allow another move of clarity to unfold.
The ability to experience genuine connection is a crucial life skill for the 21st century

Come play Basketball - league-level adults - Hemel
Thu 06 Nov
|Hemel
This is the opposite of a scrimmage. We don’t react to the first opportunity that comes our way. We experience authentic connection that can only be felt by ourselves and never wholly measured or coached. We build nuanced, layered, flowing connections of team basketball.


Time & Location
06 Nov 2025, 21:00 – 22:00
Hemel, Hill Common, Hemel Hempstead HP3 8JH, UK
Guests
About the event
This is the opposite of a scrimmage. We don’t react to the first opportunity that comes our way. We experience authentic connection that can only be felt by ourselves and never wholly measured or coached. We build nuanced, layered, flowing connections of team basketball.
It is at Longdean Sports Centre. https://goo.gl/maps/
The entrance is not via Longdean school. There is a separate entrance that you can only find by just putting the post code in - HP3 8JH
- off Hill Common. The easiest way is to use “What3Words” and they are ///guard.forks.fries
The app - It is easier to book on using our app which you can get by going to your phone's app store, search for wix.com app called Spaces. Download. And then enter this code QTKFDS
Don't let a lack of money stop you from coming. We have free tickets. Contact jon.thorne@LifeSkills21.club you don't need to explain -…
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