Nothing is working because we keep using our relationships to double down on fixing faulty parts, rather than relating as a whole.
The whole is not the sum
of its parts. It's the
relationship
between them.
Insight emerges from the relationship of the whole, not from a reduction to the parts.
When we establish and sustain the relationship of the whole, something good happens.
Relating as a whole cannot be reduced to a list of skills — it can only be experienced within the relationship itself. When you play sports with us, no one doubles down on fixing faulty parts — so every connection between parts can reveal what it truly means to be in relationship with the whole.
Be in a relationship of the whole

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Swimming for all-ability adultsDate and time is TBDLocation is TBD
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Create highlight reels that go beyond the numbers.Date and time is TBDLocation is TBD
I hope you are well.
When my children didn’t fit into an increasingly standardized education system, my one clear resolve was to resist what everyone was urging me to do. I didn’t yet know the alternative, but I refused to respond to my children's struggles by doubling down on drilling the parts they were told they needed to master. In time, that refusal led me to help my own children—and many others—practice the skills of relating as a whole.
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