Most of us know, CONNECTION is as important as everything else put together.
There are currently two very common ways to give yourself a comfort zone of connection.
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When you connect by playing a fixed part, in a fixed sum of the parts, the best everyone can get is the fixed sum of the fixed parts.
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When you connect with those whose thoughts are aligned with your own.
Although having something to look forward to makes a comfort zone of connection more bearable, it does not eliminate the stagnation of going around in a loop, doing the same thing over and over again.
You can escape the comfort zone of connection by adding a Gestalt.
This means loosening the bonds between interconnected parts, so that we can constantly change the connections between the parts to create something greater than the sum of the parts. When the comfort zone of connection is removed, an endless journey of continuous improvement unfolds.
Participating in a Gestalt involves watching what a teammate is about to do. Waiting to see how everyone reacts. Then, moving to provide an additional option, at the moment, their option is closing down. To them, it feels like they are running into the unknown, knowing people will appear with a previously unseen option at the moment it is needed.
When everyone is doing this, it creates a deep sense of connection that makes it possible to let go of any need for a fix part in a fixed sum of the parts. To let go of any need to align thinking. It breaks the stagnation.
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All-ability adults play Basketball (1)Sun 01 MarWatford
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Our
Story
A Journey Through Connection and technology
In the early 1990s, I served as a business analyst for a company that employed the revolutionary online collaboration tool, Lotus Notes.
My role involved identifying the various ways in which individuals connect and assessing which of these connections could be facilitated online.
I classified the forms of connection into two categories: measurable and immeasurable. The measurable connections were moved online, with the intention of freeing up more face-to-face time for those connections that could not be quantified.
I have recently learned that the measurable connections are for fixing parts into a fixed sum of the parts and for aligning thinking. The immeasurable connections are for creating something greater than the sum of the parts, described as Gestalt.
As the Internet and Google began to rise, I shifted my focus to assisting struggling technology projects on the verge of failure. By replacing the measurable connection with Gestalt connection, I was able to ensure that these projects were completed on time and within budget.
After that, I dedicated my efforts to helping young people with autism experience a Gestalt of connection.
Because it has become too easy to rely on measurable connections, I want to do something that makes it easier for people experience Gestalt connections.
The ability to connect to create something bigger than the sum of the parts is a crucial life skill of the 21st century
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